Anonymous asked: My group of friends is excluding this one person who, at times, can be annoying but is mostly ok. They decided to go out but tell him it's off so he won't go. I don't really have a problem with him and feel uncomfortable lying. What do I do?!
If you have a choice, tell your friends that you are not comfortable with their decision and make them realize that being with this person is not that bad after all. It’s about being true to yourself.
kyrah-von-kalium asked: I have a group of me and other three best friends. 2 of them are really close together and one of them got mad at me. When my friends are mad they ignore me so when I met her and the other yesterday at the gym I didn't greet and she got angrier and the other got too. Plus there were other misundersatings that got them even sadder(I guesswe fixed these).When I fight with friends I cant write/draw out of worry. I never fight with 2 at same time. Do you know how much until we get normal again? :'(
You guys should talk. Just apologize for your mistakes and let them decide what’s going to happen next.
Anonymous asked: She kept on posting about stuffs like "have a little understanding". I don't get her. I ask her if she's mad, tells me she's not then acts like that. She keeps on saying that it really troubles her when she's not in good terms with someone especially the close ones but in what Im seeing, she's really good at ignoring me. I really need someone to talk to right now and she's the one I always come to but in this situation I don't think I can rely on her. What should I do? :( - J
Are you sure you didn’t do anything to upset your friend? Try asking some of your common friends. They might know what’s going on with you guys. If you think there is something wrong with you two, give each other time to think.
Anonymous asked: Hi. So, I have this friend of mine (almost my bestest friend) and I guess we're falling apart. Not that we had a really big fight. We didn't argue or anything. It's just that we had a simple misunderstanding. Then I told her how I felt about that situation. I even add jokes whiles telling her that so I can lighten up the mood between us but she just responds shortly. I told her it's her turn to get annoyed of what I told her, then she said I have a point and she's not mad. - J
Sometimes you need to be sensitive especially when your friend doesn’t take things like these as joke. Both of you should talk and make things clear. Try to compromise.
Anonymous asked: I recently stayed over a Friends house and I experienced something that never happened at a sleepover before. Usually when everyone's tired, they go to sleep, but my one friend and i just talked for hours about stuff, life, and we found out we have a lot in common. I never really had friends til this point in my life, and it seems that we can become good, even best friends. This is the first time someone even took deep interest in knowing me. What do you think? cuz i never had a best friend
That’s good and perhaps this person could be your best friend! Keep in touch and hang out more often! :)
Anonymous asked: I consider this girl my best friend, and she is the closest person to me. But i feel like im constantly making the effort and when we are in certain circumstances she wants to talk to me and other times she doesn't. I don't know what i should do, other friends understand what i mean, its like she prioritizes others over me... and i feel like i should be like her top priority :(
You should not expect the same thing with your friend. Don’t give too much coz it’ll hurt you so much.
Anonymous asked: hi, i'm a girl and i'm 16. i think i'm in love with my bestfriend and she's a girl too, and i really don't know how to tell her... she likes boys and i'm scared that if i tell her, she won't be friends with me again, and i really don't want to loose what we have, i love her so much... what should i do?
You’re too young to be sure. Who knows it could be just a ‘love for a sister’ feeling. ;)
Anonymous asked: I love my best friends. They are so sweet and make me laugh so hard. The problem is that they dont like me anymore im to annoying and rude to them but thats how it used to be. Ive changed a lot and ive learned my lesson but now i cant talk to them without feeling tremendously awkward and i end up just sitting there. My best friends and i have always been so close but now i feel very shy and shaft and i dont know how to act anymore! help, what should i do?
Don’t over-think things. If they really care about you, they should not get annoyed. True friends don’t act like that. If they made you feel bad, tell them. They must know how you feel.
Anonymous asked: I used to talk so much and being so close with this guy, my bestfriend. He treat me like his princess I meant he really love me as a friend and we both are really close to each other as a bestfriend and not some kind of secretly crush or what. We both are just a really close to each other everytime. Until he had a new girlfriend, everything in between us changed, its so different and I am so upset. Terribly upset. Should I blame on him? Should I forgive him if he comes talk to me again? Sad
You have to tell him how you feel since both of you are best friends. He’ll understand it for sure. If not, he’s not a true friend.