Anonymous said: I have this friend who has been acting strange lately we've been friends for 6 years now. we started highschool this year,but she's not really been herself. she's so concerned about her social standing/rep &she always tells ppl about the parties she goes to& makes everything about her. she never used 2 b like that I feel really pushed 2 the side bc she ignores me when she's with other friends. she thinks she's too good now 4 her old friends who've always been there for her bc"everyone"knows her
Let her! As we see it, we think you deserve better! You’re really such an amazing person by appreciating your friendship but yeah, go look for new friends! The more the merrier! Haha
Anonymous said: Hi! I have a bestfriend and he has a girlfriend. The problem is... I think I'm inlove with him. What am I gonna do? My heart is breaking everytime I see them together..
If you guys are really close, why hide it? Go tell him if you think he’s really your bestfriend. He should be understanding enough! Just tell him that you like him and you have no intentions of ruining his current relationship. The next day, just act normal like nothing happened. Or if this doesn’t make you comfortable, tell him what you feel in a joking manner. See how he will react it. Who knows maybe he felt the same way before.
Anonymous said: i am depressed, i want a friend.. my current friends are terrible, they backstab, i thirdwheel.. i just need a friend/or someone to talk to who i can help, who can help me x
I think you do have a friend, you just don’t notice them as your friend but remember that real friends are those with you during the dullest moments of your life! Cheer up! Look around you!
Anonymous said: My group of friends is excluding this one person who, at times, can be annoying but is mostly ok. They decided to go out but tell him it's off so he won't go. I don't really have a problem with him and feel uncomfortable lying. What do I do?!
If you have a choice, tell your friends that you are not comfortable with their decision and make them realize that being with this person is not that bad after all. It’s about being true to yourself.
kyrah-von-kalium said: I have a group of me and other three best friends. 2 of them are really close together and one of them got mad at me. When my friends are mad they ignore me so when I met her and the other yesterday at the gym I didn't greet and she got angrier and the other got too. Plus there were other misundersatings that got them even sadder(I guesswe fixed these).When I fight with friends I cant write/draw out of worry. I never fight with 2 at same time. Do you know how much until we get normal again? :'(
You guys should talk. Just apologize for your mistakes and let them decide what’s going to happen next.
Anonymous said: She kept on posting about stuffs like "have a little understanding". I don't get her. I ask her if she's mad, tells me she's not then acts like that. She keeps on saying that it really troubles her when she's not in good terms with someone especially the close ones but in what Im seeing, she's really good at ignoring me. I really need someone to talk to right now and she's the one I always come to but in this situation I don't think I can rely on her. What should I do? :( - J
Are you sure you didn’t do anything to upset your friend? Try asking some of your common friends. They might know what’s going on with you guys. If you think there is something wrong with you two, give each other time to think.
Anonymous said: Hi. So, I have this friend of mine (almost my bestest friend) and I guess we're falling apart. Not that we had a really big fight. We didn't argue or anything. It's just that we had a simple misunderstanding. Then I told her how I felt about that situation. I even add jokes whiles telling her that so I can lighten up the mood between us but she just responds shortly. I told her it's her turn to get annoyed of what I told her, then she said I have a point and she's not mad. - J
Sometimes you need to be sensitive especially when your friend doesn’t take things like these as joke. Both of you should talk and make things clear. Try to compromise.